Tips to young well educated women whilst choosing a life partner.

1.Remember the proverb marry a person who loves you whether you love him or not !Follow this ancient wisdom religiously as it is sure to give you rich dividends .You will be the undisputed queen of that man's heart and household .
2.Don't marry a man because he is jolly ,full of smiles , is fore ever laughing and is a happy person to be with .Serious young women are attracted to such men ,like a moth is to fire .If you fall prey to this chaps charms ,be warned that he'll keep on laughing come what may ,even at you and your troubles and miseries.Marry some one more serious than you .He'll surly understand your problems or at least not laugh at what ever that is troubling you !
3.Never marry a man for his looks. He'll give every other girl looks and keep you on tenterhooks .So marry some one presentable none too handsome or better looking than you .
4.Don't marry beneath you just because you have fallen madly in love .After few years or say even few months the lack of amenities all of which you had taken for granted at your fathers house ,will get on your nerves.Vice versa don't marry someone too above you .You'll be in for a cultural shock and be caught in a web of family politics revolving around money.Better to marry .a man from the class to which you belong.
5.Don't marry a guy who is less qualified than you .You won't get a complex -he will. If that isn't enough he won't be ambitious enough to give you and your children the most important reason for getting married -a good comfortable life or a secure future.,which with your ambitious character a natural corrolary for pursuing higher studies will not gell !
Marry a man who is presentable ,serious,ambitious,more qualified than you and most important is in a good job .
All the best .

Acts of kindness

Nothing touches me more than an act of kindness .The act of that middle aged man to distribute food packets to vagabonds,destitute as well as dirty people wandering around or sleeping on the pavements, willingly sacrificing his morning walks on and off, in the sheltered clean park trodden by people of his age and class who alight from their clinically clean car only to jump back into their islands of comfort once their exercising and socialising is over.
As also the kindness and patience of that well to do woman for finding the time and the willingness to part with money to dole out delicious pongal vadai to all those hungry, ill fed poor people forming a queue as long as the queue of the well endowed[with health, wealth etc] devotees who worship the deity in fond hope of being bestowed with more wealth,and ease their conscience [that pricks them for not doing any thing substantial for the deprived lot ],by tossing a few coins at the beggars and hurrying off to make and chase money .