Marry a girl who is pretty or at least pleasant to look at.Only then you will be motivated enough to work and care for your family and thus carry your name forward to the next generation.
Marry a girl who is less qualified than you,but not so less qualified that she opens her eyes wide in amazement when you tell her that the world is round.
Marry a girl who is neither too thin or too fat. If she is skinny you 'll have to do all the housework and keep paying doctor's fees. If she is too fat she'll be forever cooking and eating.So marry some one slim.
Marry a girl who is several years younger than you .Then you wont have to face embarrasing questions like--'your elder sister is here but where is your wife ' when you attend functions together.
If it is decided that the wife will work allow her to work as a teacher or as a clerk in a bank or govt with no ambitions of climbing up .Generally these jobs are less taxing on time and energy and she will be there for you when you come home late and tired from office. If you choose a soft ware engineer or a Mba or an I.a.s as your life partner you may meet,[ with luck] once a week though living in the same house.
Marry from your own class .If you marry from a very low class your house will be a resting place for hordes of relatives. If you choose a bride from a very high class a car will be permanently stationed at your gate to whisk you off at a moments notice to your in.laws house to attend on them .
So marry a slim, pleasant looking woman much younger and less qualified than you and one who hails from the class and culture to which you belong.
All the best.
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I couldnt even realise that there are so many things that parents think before matching a girl for their son and I feel the tips that you provided here is more from a parent perspective.Still the dream girl in my mind never comes in any of the clause provided.Maybe that is why I have a strange feeling of not to be getting married because at some point in time I will realise that I cannot bear with this girl anymore.I also feel that there is a lot of maturity needed to take these points to live a sucessful life.
dear Nirmal
I hesitated to give tips to young men as I felt it may upset the apple cart .your comments justifies my apprehensions.Just follow your heart! Give and take in equal measures is all that it takes to make a marriage happy and successful. Rely on the basic human quality 'compassion'.That will steer you through.
sujata
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